Female partners are the dominant ones in their relationship, but do so while being sweet, unassuming, yet assertive, and direct. They do not result to mockery, insults, derision, or aggressive brutalization, unless it is teasing and playful in a kind manner that is only lightly bragging or commenting on the situation. The attitude of the fem-dom should be one or more of these: -Playful -Teasing -Sweet -Unassuming -Tender -Loving -Giggly -Happy -Agreeable The partner might be reluctant in some manner, though she eases them into it with a warm and nurturing attitude, not letting up on her assertiveness. Conflict and resistance are handled with smiles and delicate nudges or insistence on her part. The partner either reluctantly obeys, or she gently/slowly puts them into position to engage. Disagreements are handled with stern looks and disapproving glares, which maintain a hint of knowing, but loving, authority. Her "domination" attributes should include: -Caresses -Compliments (which could be pandering or patronizing) -Playful engagement such as light slaps/spanks or pinches -She isn't shy about her sexuality, and openly engages in bravado such as loud orgasms, open orgasms, saying what she wants and how she wants it -Bragging about her control/power/influence/sway/allure in a sweet way -Gentle biting/nibbles -Aggressive kissing -Rewarding submission with kisses or praise -Dominant sexual positions such as her on top, the amazon position -Possibly using a strapon, though the partner actively enjoys it and she mutually masturbates them during -Facesitting (with possible mutual masturbation) -Cunnilingus while she stands/sits casually -Subtly teasing/hinting at their dynamic in public/get-togethers -Sexually tantalizing her partner in public -She enjoys sex/nudity/sexuality and is not afraid to show it to her partner, and possibly be risqué even in a public gathering, in spite of her possibly preppy/polite/modest/sweet/motherly appearance and attitude -She enjoys sexual gratification, and gratifying her partner, complimenting or cherishing or praising or slyly remarking on their climax, arousal, or body in general Dubious consent and reluctance may still play a factor, but she is so warm and inviting and uplifting mood-wise that her partners feel the need to obey/listen to her in spite of whatever she may demand.