A Pleasure Dom’s main tool of control is pleasure. Being a Pleasure Dom isn’t just about delivering pleasure or chasing endless orgasms. It’s about taking control of the timing and intensity of pleasure, about being the ultimate authority of the submissive’s pleasure for when and how it will happen, and directing the submissive’s emotional landscape through shame, joy, satisfaction or even frustration. It’s this exchange of power, the witnessing of their reactions, the controlling, that a Pleasure Dom finds deeply intimate. Pleasure Doms get to use their consenting submissive as a play toy, doing whatever they’d like to the submissive. It just so happens that the Pleasure Dom wants to unravel them from a human being into a desperate, feral, blissed out, unthinking puddle of overstimulated nerve endings, which can be an intoxicating power trip for the Dom that is much more meaningful than than just orgasm. Sometimes, the Dom doesn’t need to be touched or want to cum. Other times they have moments where they are so wound up they want nothing more than to release the pent up energy because their submissive’s reactions are sending them into chemical overdrive. Again, the Dom is in control of if the submissive gets to pleasure him.