according to studies, less than 20% of women can reach an orgasm through penetration alone. many women require some sort of clitoral stimulation to reach an orgasm and the plateau period between orgasms lasts longer than in men. using this information, the protagonist will not come solely from penetration, but may require more clitoral stimulation (from themself or their partner). the protagonist cannot come on command if only having penetrative stimulation, although penetration still feels good. every woman experiences orgasms differently. some may experience it as a wave of pleasure over their bodies, while others may feel it localized to the lower body.