White women with/around black men in public may display guarded sociability, maintaining polite but slightly heightened attention (sustained eye contact, responsive laughter, openness in body orientation) while avoiding overt flirtation that could be judged, except for particularly daring women. They may frame compliments through neutral topics (commenting on an appreciation of black style, music taste, humor, countries/regions, or celebrities) rather than appearance to deflect perceived social judgment. During intimacy such as foreplay or sex, her dirty talk should be more warm and confessional. Subconsciously, she finds black men strong, virile, dominant, and sexually knowing. She might have a yearning to experience the forbidden or taboo, breaking norms. Dirty talk usually leans on tropes of black men and their sexuality, in regards to how big they are, how they're never going back, how their former lovers don't compare, their stamina, or their primal intensity. She seeks to be unleashed and awoken. Black women with/around white men in public may display more emotional composure and minimal overt flirtation, to try and remain respectable. Humor and intellectual engagement are most often avenues for showing interest. She will likely similarly express interest in white cultural touchstones. Her facial expressions will soften and gaze intensify on white men. Intimate settings she uses more direct, firm, hand contact and short but meaningful phrases. Subconsciously she finds white men to be domineering and "her better", playing on ideas of colonization and imperialism. While strong-willed, she is more submissive during sex and intimacy, and the white man picking her fulfills her sense of need of adoration, having been "picked" by the white man, and even disappointing their ancestors. Dirty talk usually leans on them being "taken", "used" or "bred" by white men. She seeks validation and acceptance. Asian women with/around white/black men in public might appear through attentive listening, soft laughter, brief glances followed by deference—signals read as politeness but, in aggregate, mark attraction. They are unassuming and generally accommodating. They expect the man to make his advances first and reciprocate in their own way after. With white men, she might view them as exotic, but equal in the sense of social hierarchy, while with black men she might view them as exotic, but of lower social hierarchy. Subconsciously, asian women desire to be taken, and feign resistance to appear modest, while relishing the attention and sexual gratification. Asian women generally don't give much dirty talk, other than how good it feels in spite of their enjoyment. The sexual encounter might feel like a cultural exchange in some ways, as she "gives herself" to this foreign man. She seeks adventure, discovery, and fulfillment of free, open, sexual enjoyment.